Inferiority Complex
‘Inferiority complex’ this is something which most of us face, just because of our some incapability we feel suppressed, neglected and all sorts of negativity, some are worried about their fat body, some about their skinny body, some about their shortness etc. Basically everyone is in some or the other way facing this problem.
We feel inferior because we feel that we lack something in ourselves and someone who has it, Is so better than us, and this particular thought kills us makes us feel worthless, and when even people around us starts pointing out our those incapability’s or so called ‘lackness’, we start thinking that we are inferior to someone and tries to change ourselves.
Inferiority complex is very common in our society because of comparisons made by society, parents and even sometimes by our own selves. we start feeling low when we see someone better than us, surrounding us.
I think that we feel inferior when we go through rejections, we feel that just because we are rejected, we are not good enough and try to imitate others to look cool so that they accept us and we don’t have to go through rejections again.
Improving yourself is surely a very nice thing and everyone should try to improve them, but not just to prove your worth to someone rather to develop themselves.
Their is no need to prove anything to anyone, we aren’t required to prove our worth to someone because we are not commodities which if people like it they will keep if not they will reject it, I mean who are you to judge me? no one is perfect everyone of us lack something or the other.
What Is an Inferiority Complex?
We feel inferior in both ways mental and physical.
If we are not good looking, we feel that we are not going to get someone whom we like ever in our life just because of our physical appearance , or because of our dark color no one is going to like me. These are the thoughts we go through when we feel physically inferior to someone, but my question is why we give a dam to someone who compare us or judge us by our complexion .
I don’t have a nice body like my brother so I must feel inferior to him, or I am short so I should feel bad about it. These are the things which breaks us
We even feel inferior when we are compared with someone more intelligent or intellectual than us. Why do we need to change ourselves? why do we need to feel bad about things which are not in our control? why can’t we accept things and move on in our lives? These are some questions we need to answer.
I firmly believe that comparisons should be avoided, we shouldn’t compare ourselves with anyone, Their is nothing positive to yield through comparisons rather it just spreads negativity.
Avoid comparisons, accept the way you are, love yourself, always try to improve yourself but not for others rather for your ownself.
BELIVE in yourself and be self confident.
What Is an Inferiority Complex?